Laos

  

Atop Kuang Si waterfall.

  I had originally planned to bus it from Siem Reap to 4,000 Islands in Laos and spend some days there hanging out in a hammock, but since I had just spent a week longer than anticipated doing just that on Koh Ta Kiev I decided to fly all the way to Luang Prabang in northern Laos. 

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Luang Prabang way out in the distance.


I had heard some mixed reviews about Vang Vieng, and mostly lukewarm reviews about the capital, Vientiane, so I decided that my Laos adventure would begin and end in Luang Prabang. No regrets.
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One of many temples throughout Luang Prabang.


Coming from the tourist Mecca that is Siem Reap, Cambodia, Luang Prabang felt like going home. It’s a town of 50,000 people and you can feel it as soon as you arrive, be it on plane, bus or boat. 

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Small town feel. With a Mount Phousi off in the distance (notice the gold on top).


I treated myself to my own room, ensuite, which was invaluable, it turns out. I’ll get there in a minute. 

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I spent at least two days there just walking around, exploring and taking in the feel of the city. I visited some shops, ate some amazing food, and walked across an old, rickety bridge that had my palms sweating like a teenage boy anticipating his first kiss. 

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The two defining aspects to Luang Prabang, in my opinion, are the monks and ecotourism. A tradition that is under threat is the morning alms. Tourists come through, gawk, get too close, and commonly disturb the procession of monks in saffron robes chanting and pacing through the streets, collecting rice from the Buddhists in the town. The people of Luang Prabang are up no later than 6am to sit on tiny stools on the street in order to give a small portion of rice to each monk that passes. This is their fill for the day, though they do compile and divide it evenly once they return to the temple.

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Repurposed “decorations” for a business.


It’s a beautiful ritual I’m grateful to have witnessed far from the crowds, as smaller groups walk through most neighborhoods in the town, not just on the main street. I simply walked out of my guesthouse and witnessed the ritual without cringing at the thoughtlessness of other travelers.

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Ecotourism is also a really cool thing about Laos. It is incredibly beautiful and filled with smiling, friendly people seemingly everywhere you go. The first day of exploring led me to the Aussie Bar simply because as I was passing I noticed the Rugby World Cup on TV. Here I met a Kiwi woman about 30 years my senior who invited me on a trekking and kayaking tour with her later in the week. I accepted.

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Kayaking on the river.


Unfortunately, the day before this trip I fell ill with food poisoning…bad. (Here’s where the personal room and bathroom comes in to save the day) But despite how shitty (ha) I felt, I decided to do the tour anyway. We drove to the river, crossed it by boat, and toured a village that houses three different hill tribes. 

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One of three types of houses in the village. Each tribe has their own style of house.


We happened upon the school here while the kids were on their mid morning break and I could not get enough of their smiles and playfulness. 

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As we moved through we saw people weaving baskets, embroidering clothing and pillow cases, and staying in shade to keep out of the heat. 

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Embroidering while the baby sleeps.


We strode straight through the village to a jungle path and trekked along the hills a while. We passed countless rubber trees on rubber farms on our walk, which was pretty cool. How much rubber do you use in your daily life? Yeah, well, I got to see it leaking from a tree, collecting in bowls en masse. 

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A rubber tree! The farmer peels off a strip of bark so it leads right into the bowl. The white stuff is unprocessed, natural rubber!


It had rained quite a bit so parts of the path were slippery…and some very steep. When the lady at the tour office said flip flops were fine for the walk, I figured it would be mostly flat. I wore my hiking sandals just in case, but they did not save me from sliding halfway down a muddy hill on my ass. Mental note: trust no one.

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After our final descent we crossed the river yet again to collect our kayaks. 20 minutes later we were at Tad Se waterfall and it was time for lunch. I laughed in the face of lunch. My body still couldn’t handle food. Though I despise elephant tourism, of which there was plenty here, I did enjoy my time at the falls. 

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The water was cold and blue and looked quite fresh. I had intended to swim, but feeling as icky as I was, I was happy to simply lay in a chair on the man-made deck adjacent to the swimming area. It was nice enough.

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The waterfall “swimming area.”


After an hour or so we were back in the kayaks for our final push home along the river. It was downstream, which was nice, and the sun was shining. I swear I haven’t seen a sky that blue since I left home. Asian smog blues. The sky was a deep blue with fluffy white clouds and luscious green mountains all around us. Stunning, frankly.

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The falls empty to the river. They are just behind me in my kayak.


As tired as I was when I got back, I decided to take my new friend, Jess, to watch the rugby match at the Aussie Bar. We made it to halftime. 

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Kuang Si waterfall.


The next day I happily slept in and rose only when I was ready to hire a tuk-tuk to take me to the “big” waterfall, Kuang Si. First and probably only time I’ll sit shotgun in a damn tuk-tuk.

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A lower terrace of Kuang Si waterfall.


This time I really did wear flip flops, even though I was instructed to climb all the way to the top of the falls. I survived.

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Before you get to the falls, you are greeted with sunning bears in a sanctuary. Traditional Asian medicine calls for bear bile, among other things, to heal people of various ailments, and here these bears are safe. They were playing and lounging around. I especially liked the guy in the hammock–bear after my own heart.

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A nice thing about this waterfall is the amount of places you can get wet. There are terraced pools of perfect blue water, like a beautiful lagoon, even at the very beginning. There are even some with tables and benches built right in. Keep climbing and you’ll find the grand fall. There is a bridge and some walkways built around and over the water here to facilitate the countless peace sign selfies that grace its face.

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The perfect, calm lagoon at the top of the falls.

While I considered this could be the top, I laughed when I saw the stairs to the left of the fall. Up, up, up I went. Flip flops were not the best idea, but I wasn’t alone. Part of the path includes another fall, but the stairs you climb up are basically inside the fall, so watch your step, it’s slippery. When you continue on there are two paths. Many people were coming down the one to the right so I figured that’s where we had to go, not knowing exactly what I was looking for. Bad idea. Go left. Same place, easier path.

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The stairway inside the falls.


I finally found the beautiful lagoon at the top of the fall and felt like I had entered Eden. The water was freezing and blue and rapid, but I swam up there for about an hour, surrounded by lush green, looking to the mountain peaks through the breaks in trees.

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Peering over the top of Kuang Si waterfall.

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Pathways to cross the bkie lagoon at the top of the waterfall.


I descended in half the time it took me to climb up there and I was on my way. Well, sort of, my tuk-tuk disappeared and his buddies told me to sit tight for a few. Everything was fine then.

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This picture is Laos in a nutshell.


These are the things I really enjoyed about Luang Prabang, but there’s a lot to mention. Some highlights include:

-Utopia Bar & Restaurant. This looks like the perfect place to get stoned. It’s not. They’ll literally call the police on you. And I was told (and am unsure how true it is) that you don’t get fed in prison in Laos. Apparently your family must bring you food. Don’t get arrested.

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At Utopia.

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At Utopia.


Otherwise this is a really cool spot. You can take yoga for about $5, lounge on the deck overlooking the river, enjoy some good eats (try the river weed), and have a drink or two if you fancy. This is also the place where people go out at night because it is open latest, until 11:30pm. There is a midnight curfew so all business are shuttered before then…with the exception of the bowling alley where many people file to after Utopia closes.

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Yoga at Utopia. Get there early as they start on time and it fillsbup quick. Bring cash!


-Food. Laos has some great food, stemming from a lot of regional and colonial influences. They even have their own version of Korean BBQ (yum!). There are nice curries, tasty veggies and tender meat dishes–I recommend the buffalo. And, as always, sticky rice with mango for dessert. My fave.

-People. Get to know some people from Laos. They’re so kind and friendly and you’re not going to find people like them easily in cities like Siem Reap or Hanoi. 

After five days, me and my stomach bacteria headed for Thailand…again…on a mission to Pai.

Holiday In Cambodia

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You might think that Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos and Thailand would be relatively similar to one another, given how close they are geographically. You would be wrong.

At the Royal Palace.

These are ethnically rich and culturally diverse nations that have been influenced by a lot of the same people through periods of war and colonization. There is a very stark difference in the way people interact with you as a foreigner in Indochina and in some places it’s a bit overwhelming.

Messing around at the Royal Palace.

Messing around at the Royal Palace.

 

I foolishly assumed that cities within Cambodia would feel similar, and I was greeted with four very different experiences in each place I visited. Phnom Penh was chaotic. An authentically dirty, third-world capital city. It wasn’t pretty and it wasn’t made for tourists, but there they (we, tourists) are, obvious strangers in a strange land. Here the obvious, nearly obligatory, attractions are the Killing Fields and the S21 museum. They are fucked up reminders of the extreme horror that humanity is capable of, and though it isn’t easy to see, I believe it is our responsibility to learn as much history first-hand as possible. If you want to know more about that, read my last post “War Crimes in Indochina.”

 

In Phnom Penh I also visited the Royal Palace, including the Silver Pagoda, Russian Market and Night Market. Don’t we all just fucking love palaces, markets and temples?!?! I’m rolling my eyes.

At the Royal Palace.

At the Royal Palace.


The Silver Pagoda at the Royal Palace.

The Silver Pagoda at the Royal Palace.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Many of these are beautiful, worthwhile and amazing, but would you go to Europe for two months and only look at those things? Maybe you would, you loser. But what I like the most about traveling is getting a feel for the city and for its people, and how you are different and the same. I definitely enjoy markets for this reason, to be fair, but I also enjoy spending time just observing.

The Royal Palace.

The Royal Palace.

I didn’t observe much in Phnom Penh because, frankly, I was a bit culture shocked at first. And my hostel sold joints and had a pool so I was stoned a lot of the time. Didn’t stop me from sightseeing, but I was pretty content. I flipped that switch pretty hard when I landed in Sihanoukville. And by landed I mean arrived after a five hour bus journey.

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I didn’t really spend much time in Sihanoukville proper, but it’s low season now and everything is quiet. No complaints from me, though, that’s for sure. I scurried my way to Otres Beach, a 15 minute or so tuk-tuk ride from the town center, and when I walked into Sea Garden I fell in love instantly. Though it was the last sunny day I would see there, I’m glad it was shining when I arrived.

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Sea Garden is one of a handful of bungalow accommodations directly on Otres Beach and the vibe there is everything. Go there. Just do it. Tell Joe that Kate sent you. He won’t remember me, I’m sure, but tell him anyway, he’s a cool dude. This place is clean, friendly, cozy and chill while still being very minimal. It’s just an awesome place I’m grateful to have experienced.

A bungalow at Sea Garden in Otres Beach, Sihanoukville, Cambodia.

A bungalow at Sea Garden in Otres Beach, Sihanoukville, Cambodia.

 

 

 

 

Anyway, the whole point of me going to Otres beach was so I could catch a boat to Koh Ta Kiev, the island no one has heard of. It took me uncharacteristically long to get there because I was misdirected, then the tuk-tuk broke down, then I ran uphill pushing the tuk-tuk. When I arrived at the boat pick-up spot for when there’s inclement  weather (a Navy base), the entrance was blocked, so I got out and started walking. One of the boat captains cruised through a small gap in the fence on his motorbike and myself and another guy hopped on the bike with hi–three people, four bags, one bike–and rode to the water.

Sea Garden.

Sea Garden.


Sunset at Sea Garden, Otres Beach, Sihanoukville, Cambodia.

Sunset at Sea Garden, Otres Beach, Sihanoukville, Cambodia.

This other guy, who fancies himself one of those authentic travelers (but is really a deluded hipster), told me (with confidence) to get on the wrong boat, which led to me switching boats on the water. When I finally arrived on the island I saw no one, except a smiley Khmer man waving me along. The guys unloaded the supplies onto a tractor. Once the gas can, water, beer and ice were loaded, I also got on the tractor. The smiley man, Mr, Kojun, and I drove through the jungle for 20 minutes and I still had no idea what was going on, but I was optimistic about my odds for survival. I was right. I’m alive. Hooray.

The tractor.

The tractor.

Rainy season left the bungalows, called Ten103 Treehouse Bay, nearly deserted, as well as the rest of the island. My second day I went for a walk on the beach, and in two hours I only saw locals–a Khmer mother and son, and two men who looked like they worked on the island. A secret beach and a jungle adventure.

Riding the tractor with all the supplies.

Riding the tractor with all the supplies.


Sunset at Ten103.

Sunset at Ten103.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I seriously loved this place. I would love to go back for several months and live as a part of the incredible team of humans who live and work together for Ten103 Treehouse Bay, whom I got to know pretty well. No wifi, no electricity, no running water, no problem.

The water right off Ten103 Treehouse Bay on Koh Ta Kiev island.

The water right off Ten103 Treehouse Bay on Koh Ta Kiev island.

Low season is rainy season and there was only one night that the storms got to me. By that point I was comfortable with the jungle and the noises it makes, but a HUGE storm rolled through after visiting Japan and Vietnam and started fucking with the trees around the dorm where I was sleeping. With three walls to the dorm, we could watch the storm over the ocean, but also hear branches falling on the roof. On the top bunk I convinced myself a tree was about to fall through and crush me. It didn’t. Hooray.

Breakfast time at Ten103.

Breakfast time at Ten103.

Anyway, paradise. Yep. Bucket showers are a-ok with me!

After several days I returned to the mainland and reconnected. I showered and it was glorious. I sat down to pee and it was amazing. It was also still raining but I decided to hang at Sea Garden again for a couple more days to re-acclimate. image

 

 

 

I got an AMAZING massage at Relax in Sihanoukville, posted a package that required me to lick about 13 stamps, and chilled out with some new friends. But I did have to move on, so I took an overnight sleeper bus from Sihanoukville to Siem Reap.

Leaving Koh Ta Kiev.

Leaving Koh Ta Kiev.

 

Lucky for me, I had some solid bunk mates. We all had shared beds on the bus. As a solo traveler, I slept next to a really nice stranger, an Australian girl, and we talked with the two across the aisle from us. Canadians. After several stops, some sketchy pee breaks and 11 hours, we arrived in Siem Reap.

Day one was a wash as it was raining and the Canadians, plus three Brits they knew, and I drank all day. We experienced a party hostel off season, which was mildly pathetic, and Pub Street, which is exactly what you’d expect it to be.

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We walked the temple and grounds, hung around on vines and watched some kids fish.

At this point I was dead tired and hungover. But we were headed to one of the floating villages…which was actually much more interesting  than I thought it would be. I hired a boat and our driver turned the key in the ignition and steered us out with his Honda steering wheel and gas pedal. We cruised to the village, seeing lots of fish traps along the way.

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We turned back to grab some food. At the floating restaurant we messed with the caged crocodiles (farmed for food), lazed in hammocks, ate and stared into the flooded forest.

Floating/Flooded Forest.

Floating/Flooded Forest.

On the way back, the boat pulled up to shore so we could walk through the village. When the rains come and the village floods this part is under water, so it wasn’t the cleanest. Still, I almost stepped on a decaying rat…about 100ft from where I saw a naked toddler playing with a 6in knife. I don’t know.

Lunchtime.

Lunchtime.

Next thing I know I’m surrounded by tiny perfect angel children and a woman is telling me to purchase books and pencils for them. Obviously I did. Because I’m a humanitarian. And I’m a sucker for kids even when I know I’m falling victim to a scam. But whatever, those kids were happy and so was I.

Angel babies.

Angel babies.

That night I passed out at 7:30.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Day three I was up at 4:30am to head to Angkor Wat for sunrise…me and everyone else. And, as it turns out, both the Canadians and the Brits. It was a pretty underwhelming sunrise with a huge crowd, but the temple complex was really cool.

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Reality.

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Expectation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

After sunrise we all grabbed coffee and headed into the temple. The architecture, carvings, reliefs and composition are just so damn old and unlike anything I had seen up to that point.

We saw four or five temples over the span of several hours, and by the time the day was ending they started to blend together, so here are some gems:

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Staged photo, but still pretty damn cool.


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Does this remind anyone else of Legends of the Hidden Temple??

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Monks at Angkor Wat.

Monks at Angkor Wat.


At Angkor Wat

At Angkor Wat

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Brits, Canadians and I all went out for some pizza that night and I passed out super early again. No shame. We all chilled together the next day until I had to leave for the airport. And damn, Laos is a whole different animal.

Taking Thailand: 태국 사람 입니다

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Transitioning back into Korean society after two weeks frolicking around Thailand has been…challenging. From the land of smiles, we returned to a cold city where few strangers smile at you and old lady elbows are common in your side. A rude welcome home, for sure, but not without its surprising upsides. Honestly, I mostly missed the food. And my apartment. And hot water and electricity overall as a normal, daily, everywhere kinda thing. Unfortunately schools are still unheated. This did not change while we were away. Sigh.

Exploring a new place is one of my favorite things about life in general. And some of the greatest takeaways from these new experiences are the friendships we make and conversations we have. And while I did meet wonderful people from all over the world, I met some not so cool ones, too, and they made me think about traveling in a way I hadn’t really considered before.

Reclining Buddha, Palace, Bangkok

Reclining Buddha, Palace, Bangkok

I’m not sure if I’m becoming more observant or if I’m simply getting older, but travel snobs are everywhere.

Palace, Bangkok

Palace, Bangkok

I’m not talking about the people who go big and luxe, but those who brag about where they’ve been and how remote it is. Some will say places you’ve been are “lame” or “overrated.”

Buddha, Palace, Bangkok

Buddha, Palace, Bangkok

Overrated? Maybe. but these places were popularized for a reason. Shut up. You sound like an asshole.

Another thing my eyes were opened to in Tonsai Beach was how oblivious travelers can be. I was very happy to stay in Tonsai and briefly live in the jungle with the monkeys and the cockroaches, reveling at the limestone cliffs around us.

Tonsai Beach

Tonsai Beach

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The view from my hammock on our bungalow porch, Tonsai Beach

It was incredible. Truly breathtaking. However, at night, while sitting in a bar, maybe a little too happy, I looked over to the space the flood lights illuminated and saw an older woman washing dishes, going about her business. I saw the shanty half-built pavilion next to the bar.

Tonsai Beach

Tonsai Beach

I even watched one of the bartenders play on Facebook for what seemed like forever. And there I was, sipping on a drink, playing Jenga and chillin’ with my Korean BFF and travel buddy, Allison. I couldn’t help but feel like an asshole for being there. For exploiting this beautiful amazing place and spending my night eating and drinking what locals served me. Locals who also have big dreams and ambitions that reach beyond serving drugs, alcohol and food to backpackers.

Monkeys in Tonsai Beach

Monkeys in Tonsai Beach

Then I looked at the tourists around me, who seemed to be completely unaware of their contribution to the inevitable downfall of this beautiful natural wonder.

I am so grateful to have experienced Tonsai and Railay (Railay Beach is right next to Tonsai, separated by a limestone cliff) and to have enjoyed sunsets, sunrises and great conversation. But these are places that are completely inaccessible without a boat. Ferries and smaller Longtail boats are constantly hovering, beaching, and taxiing people from place to place. There are no cars and no roads. At low tide, you can see and feel the effect this is having on the beach when you look around and see white coral everywhere. Some people take this as a souvenir, but I only saw a graveyard. White, sand-washed coral is remnant of a dead or dying reef. And I felt like I was part of the problem. I took boats to and from Tonsai; I craved electricity and running water.

Railay Beach

Railay Beach

At Tonsai Beach, electricity only runs from 6pm to 6am…through generators. So we are polluting the air as well. The only relief for me in Tonsai was the people who had traveled from all over the world to climb the cliffs there. They appreciated this place as more than a backpacker settlement. They weren’t there for the lifestyle, they were there for the cliffs, and I appreciated talking to them.

Sunset at Tonsai Beach

Sunset at Tonsai Beach

Our open-air bathroom in our Tonsai Beach bungalow

Our open-air bathroom in our Tonsai Beach bungalow

I was in love with our small bungalow, even though we only had one outlet to charge our phones, and even though we needed (NEEDED) the mosquito net that encased our bed, and even though our open-air bathroom welcomed visitors, like the biggest cockroach I’ve ever seen.

As much as I seemed to have gotten in my head about all this, there were some really amazing moments here. We took a kayaking trip through a mangrove jungle. It was beautiful and full of curious primates…and other tourists.

Lagoon near Ao Nang

Lagoon near Ao Nang

Our guide, Allison and the monkey who climbed around our kayaks in the Mangrove Jungle

Our guide, Allison and the monkey who climbed around our kayaks in the Mangrove Jungle

However, for me, the highlight was hearing our tour guide, the skinniest man you’ve ever seen, recount the day of the 2004 tsunami. He told us that he was in a boat on the water and due to quick thinking by his smart and experienced father, he was out of harm’s way when the waves hit shore, though they were stuck on the boat for several days.

His father had warned the rest of their family and luckily, everyone was ok. He explained that once they returned, their boat was used to transport bodies back to Ao Nang for days, maybe weeks after it happened. Guys, THIS is the reason I travel. PEOPLE make you see the world differently. People make you care for a place that you never thought twice about on a real, emotional level.

Lagoon Swimming near Ao Nang

Lagoon Swimming near Ao Nang

We also had some great conversations with the guys that tended bar at our little bungalow village. They were Thai Rasta men who played with fire and messed with the stray cats. And they were awesome. They were my favorite people we met down there. They were just having a good time, talking to us and hanging out with us and serving us drinks. Really some very funny, chilled out people. Locals are where it’s at.

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Me on the porch of our bungalow in Tonsai Beach

Unfortunately we did get kind of fucked over when we attempted to tour Ko Phi Phi. Our boat never came to get us, leaving Allison, me and another couple standing disappointed on Railay Beach. Not ones to stress and complain, we shook it off and set up shop on the beach to take in the gorgeous view and the luxurious (yes, luxurious) sand.

Hanging out in my hammock on the porch of our bungalow in Tonsai Beach

On the bungalow porch in Tonsai

 

We had to wait for low tide to hike back to Tonsai anyway…unless we wanted to wade in hip-deep water just to get to the path. It was gorgeous, the water was warm, and we just chilled. Not a terrible alternative. Tonsai and Railay were actually the last places we visited. Before this we went to Ko Lanta, Chiang Mai and, of course, Bangkok.

Long Beach, Ko Lanta

Long Beach, Ko Lanta

Bungalow in Ko Lanta

Bungalow in Ko Lanta

Ko Lanta felt like a honeymoon. We splurged, paying about $35 each per night in a gorgeous bungalow just a short walk from the sand. The beach went on forever and we took this time to chill out. After Chiang Mai we needed a break…you’ll understand why in a minute. The people here were very friendly, and it was the first time I ever had to wait somewhere for prayer time to be over so I could pay a bill. I liked it, though. The whole island felt like a family.

Sunset in Long Beach, Ko Lanta

Sunset in Long Beach, Ko Lanta

Long Beach, Ko Lanta

Long Beach, Ko Lanta

Chiang Mai was a whole different story. I absolutely loved Chiang Mai. The food, the people, the city, the outskirts, all of it. We had an amazing adventure, from meeting some amazing ladies (Page and Sarah, I’m lookin’ at you) and staying at a really cool, friendly hostel (called Mojito Garden, if you’re interested) in a conveniently located part of town, to partying, to jungle excursions. Here, we got into the party scene and had some drinks and dancing.

Allison and I at the waterfall in the jungle outside of Chiang Mai

Allison and I at the waterfall in the jungle outside of Chiang Mai

We also rode elephants, trekked through the jungle, swam in a (freezing) waterfall, and begrudgingly lowered ourselves into a pitch black cave filled with hundreds of bats.

Oh, we also met and hung out with the actor who played Cato in the Hunger Games. Pretty cool guy, actually. His cousin was pretty cool, as well. There are too many stories to tell about Chiang Mai. Too many stories and too many people to mention because it’s an amazing place…and I just might find myself back there to teach because I loved it so much.

Mojito Garden's chill space, Chiang Mai

Mojito Garden’s chill space, Chiang Mai

"The Girls" Sarah, Allison, Page and I at Reggae Bar, Chiang Mai

“The Girls” Sarah, Allison, Page and I at Reggae Bar, Chiang Mai

One story I will tell is not one I’ll soon forget. Following our drunken night with Cato, Allison and I didn’t wake up for our elephant excursion until the driver was there to pick us up in the morning. So we woke up, panicked, packed, and got moving as quick as our still-drunk selves could. We were the saddest, most hungover humans at the elephant sanctuary (Yes, sanctuary. Never go to a place that is not a rescue center as elephant abuse and neglect is rampant in the tourism industry throughout Thailand).10917113_10153637633004152_2586093767311250265_n

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Uphill and downhill on an elephant is scary

We were so hungover, in fact, that at one point I lost my pants. Hips to ankle. Separately, Allison came within seconds of puking on the elephant. Riding an elephant is not as leisurely as it seems. You’re either sitting on its shoulder blades…so when it walks, your hips rock side to side—especially uphill, or you’re sitting with a tall spine between your legs. After Allison dismounted to vomit, I flew solo on our elephant…like really solo because it decided to start walking back up the mountain when the guide wasn’t looking. He came running after me as I kept looking back with an “Oh fuck, how do I make this thing stop?” look on my face. Overall though, it was a great day and an incredible experience.

Just before she took off up the mountain

Just before she took off up the mountain

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Rantong Elephant Rescue, Chiang Mai

Rantong Elephant Rescue, Chiang Mai

All of this differed greatly from our time in Bangkok. Because my Mom is incredible, she put us up in an amazing hotel as a Christmas gift. We had a bedroom, living room, dining and kitchen space, and our own balcony…amazing. The first night in Thailand we headed to Khao San Road to see what this party place was all about.

Suite, Bangkok

Suite, Bangkok

While chillin’ drinking some beers at a bar, we started chatting with the guy sitting alone next to us. Ali is from Pakistan and he, along with his friend Faisal, were a couple of the best people we met throughout the whole trip. After sightseeing at the palace the next day, we met up with the two of them for an incredible dinner (thank you again), and afterward they took us to a Sky Bar that overlooked the city. Here, we had some drinks and an amazing conversation.

Rooftop bar of our hotel, Bangkok

Rooftop bar of our hotel, Bangkok

Again, people are what open your eyes to the world. As an American, I’m kind of afraid of Pakistan. But these two, producers, changed my perception of what Pakistan is and who Pakistani people are. I will never forget the stories they told me about Islam, extremism and phone snatchers. Some of it was funny, like phone snatching at gunpoint, and some of it was intense and scary, like when we discussed the mass murder of school children just a few months ago. I’m truly grateful to have had such wonderful conversationalists, open to talk about the world and their country in a way I would normally be afraid to discuss.

For all of this, I consider myself luckier than most. For the people I’ve met and the places I’ve been and the things I’ve experienced. Though I became somewhat unimpressed with the kinds of people I was meeting at points, I’m happy to have seen it all with a fresh perspective. I’m not sure it would have meant as much had I not. So, I don’t think I need to say this, but I fell in love with Thailand. It isn’t perfect, but no place is perfect. I’m seriously considering going back to teach, so who knows, maybe there are more stories yet to come. Until then…there’s some food for thought. Enjoy the pictures!

Later, haters

Later, haters